come as you are the surprising new science

'Emily Nagoski has written one of the most important books about sex any woman (or anybody else) could ever pick up, full of insights that are both fascinating and deeply useful. John Gottman, PhD, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Come as You Are is an absolutely necessary guide for all couples who want to understand the ups and downs in their own sex life.

'This is the best book I have ever read about sexual desire and why some couples just stop having sex, and what they can do about it. Ian Kerner, sex therapist and bestselling author of She Comes First 'Emily Nagoski is worth her weight in TED Talks, and Come as You Are is a master-class in the science of sex.' Underlying almost all of the questions we still have about sex is the common worry- 'Am I normal?' This book answers with a resounding yes! We are all different, but we are all normal - and once we learn this, we can create for ourselves better sex and more profound pleasure than we ever thought possible. Sex educator Dr Emily Nagoski debunks the common sexual myths that are making women (and some men!) feel inadequate between the sheets.

We were told the wrong story.Ĭome As You Are reveals the true story behind female sexuality, uncovering the little-known science of what makes us tick and, more importantly, how and why. The frustrating reality is that we've been lied to - not deliberately, it's no one's fault, but still. An essential exploration of women's sexuality that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.Īfter all the books that have been written about sex, all the blogs and TV shows and radio Q&As, how can it be that we all still have so many questions?

Come as you are the surprising new science